" I couldn't believe how much insight you had into me and my horse's situation. I've been to so many 'big name' trainers and yet was still feeling overwhelmed and stuck... and a bit bullied. I had so much self-doubt because I knew something was being missed with my horse. Thank you for helping me gain perspective that trusting my inner voice and slowing down to address, as you say, 'the holes' in our relationship. He has completely changed his attitude in just a few weeks. No one can believe it is the same horse. With gratitude,"
"You have removed the guesswork I used to have when working with my horse. Now instead of feeling overhwhelmed, I feel like I understand and can have empathy rather than get emotionally frustrated.Thank you for helping me find the clarity I always wanted to be the best "support" as you say for my sweet mare."
Irrelevant to the chosen discipline, the ideal goal with each ride is to refine your horsemanship with your equine partner.
This can be achieved by first creating a willing, responsive, and reasonable equine partner. If riders learn how to prioritize their mental focus they can accurately assess and address their horse.
Below is an initial checklist for before, during, and after the interaction with the horse. The answers can help clarify missing pieces in the communication. Equine enthusiasts need to learn how to assess what, who, when, where, and why scenarios occur with the horse to refine the partnership.
The horse's initial mental concerns when handled from the ground will not be diminished by demanding physical exercise of him when he is ridden. Instead, this human response teaches the horse to become defensive towards the rider, and/or he will learn to shut down mentally or potentially become increasingly physically resistant.
The assessment continues when riding to improve addressing what horse needs in real time.
Below are the commonly missing foundational elements necessary to accomplish any equine-related goal with quality:
Softness- the horse's mental and physical willingness to follow or yield to physical pressure communicated via the rider's aids (hands, seat, legs, and energy).
Suppleness- relaxation throughout the horse's body allowing him to independently move body parts without losing his softness.
Relaxation- the horse's ability to focus on the physical task without retaining tension in his body.
Engagement- the lifting of the horse's back to enable his hindquarters to step underneath his spine with a majority of his weight on his hind end. This allows soft and independent movement in his head, neck, shoulders, ribcage, and hocks.
Balance- the horse's ability to carry his weight consistently by engaging his hindquarters without leaning on the rider's hands.
Responsiveness- the brief reaction time to mentally and physically respond to the human.
Effectiveness- how quickly and softly the horse's response is towards minimal aid from the rider.
Adaptability- the willingness of the horse to let go of one thought and focus on another followed by a soft physical response.
Awareness- the horse's ability to stay present in his surroundings but prioritize his focus on the human.
Evaluation- recognizing what the initial intent was, what aids were used to communicate, how the horse responded, and if follow-through was necessary to help him achieve a softer, more willing response.
Feeling- not relying solely on what they are seeing, but re-sensitizing what they are feeling in the horse's movement and energy to improve the timing of their aids.
Adaptability- the rider's ability to offer a varying degree of energy in their aids and communication with the horse. Also, their ability to adapt the moment's goal to best support the horse.
Proactively communicating specifics of the desired response versus reactively critiquing the horse due to lack of initial guidance from the human.
By raising their standard of intention, clarity, and specificity, Alternative Horsemanship with Samantha Harvey can help horseback riders learn how to assess themselves and their horse contributing towards improving their horsemanship, becoming a positive and supportive leader for their equine partner, and building a mutually respectful partnership.
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